On Karma

I don't always know what's wrong with people, but there's definitely something off with everyone. You see those jealous-types who just can't stand not being involved in every single conversation. You have the 'Negative Nancys' who can't ever seem to put a positive spin on anything. The 'Poor-Me's' are constantly trying to get others to either feel sorry for them, or guilty - as if they had something to do with the person's poor luck. This is why I Love Karma.

Everybody has a dramatic complex to battle.
People can be interrogators, intimidators, Poor-Me's or aloof.
The complex you have has a lot to do with the complexes of your parents. For example: if you were raised by two people who seemed almost too busy to give you the attention you craved; always giving you vague or short answers and all the space you needed - you may end up as an interrogator, or you might become a Poor-Me. Because you didn't receive the attention you desired you might harbour a feeling of rejection; therefore making others feel lesser to make up for the lack of attention you received. If you still seek the attention your parents never gave you then you may try gaining it from others through sympathy.

I'm still trying to figure out all the details of my complex but I'm almost positive I'm aloof.

I'm unnaturally calm in high-stress situations. I almost always try to avoid conflict or drama of any kind. When someone else is going through a difficult time I enjoy being the confident one and helping them work through emotions. People ask me how I don't "lose my mind" when dealing with things that most have little patience for. I guess I just play it cool.

The tough thing about a complex is how many of us don't understand or believe we have them. I know how difficult it can be to convince an intimidator their only real need is to feel loved. It's not easy to open up and accept our personal flaws. We do our best to hide them from the world. We give off convoluted impressions because it makes us seem "interesting". Does it?
Or does it only make us seem more flawed?

Karma is explained as the spiritual principle of cause and effect.
Meaning: if you take advantage of someone, in the future you're bound to get duped by someone too.
This happens because humans are greedy beings.
We want. And want, and want some more.
We may think we know how to get our way, but it comes with a price we never calculate.
We may think we know people, but they always surprise us don't they?
And just when we feel our big break is here the carpet is swept up from under us and we're left laying on our ass wondering what we ever did to good old Karma.